District 15 Zontians 
Impacting Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault

Domestic violence and emotional abuse are behaviors used by one person in a relationship to control the other.  Sexual assault is conduct of a sexual or indecent nature toward another person that is accompanied by actual or threatened physical force or that induces fear, shame or mental suffering. 



Somewhere in America a woman is
sexually assaulted every 2 minutes,
according to the U.S. Dept. of Justice

  

Domestic and Sexual Assault Statistics
Michigan & Canada
   

The majority of domestic violence victims are women.

1 of 3 women report being phuysically or sexually abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point during their lives.

More than 32 million Americans are affected by domestic violence each year.

Domestic Violence is the leading cause of injury to women.

Although victims may not report to police, many do turn to other informal sources of support, such as friends, family, co-workers, and doctors/nurses.

Females and youth are at particular risk of being sexually victimized.  The rate of sexual victimization for females is about 5 times higher then the rate for males.

    
                               

  

 

Domestic and Sexual Assault Against Women


Sexual assault has become a growing problem in the United States. It has become extremely important to teach others the signs of assault or sexual assault......Read More



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Zonta of Farmington/Novi Presents Check for $13,000 to Help Fight Domestic Violence!

At their May 2017 meeting the Zonta Club of Farmington/Novi proudly presented ($13,000) from their 23rd annual fashion event, Steppin' Out in Style, to First Step:  Project on Domestic and Sexual Assault.  First Step is an agency in Wayne County, Michigan that provides services to support survivors of domestic & sexual violence. The addition of these proceeds make a grand total of $516,000 that the club has donated toFirst Step from this event alone!


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A county council in England has come up with a clever and discreet way of combatting sexual violence and abuse.

A photo posted to Twitter (and retweeted almost 30,000 times) shows a poster in the women's bathroom at a bar in Lincolnshire that advises anyone who is feeling unsafe on a date to ask the bar staff for "Angela"—a code word alerting the staff that someone is in need of help.

The copy reads: "Are you on a date that isn't working out? Is your Tinder or POF [Plenty of Fish] date not who they said they were on their profile? Do you feel like you're not in a safe situation? Does it all feel a bit weird? If you go to the bar and ask for 'Angela,' the bar staff will know you need help getting out of your situation and will call you a taxi or help you out discreetly—without too much fuss."

 
 



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Domestic violence is an abusive pattern often coupled with the impulsive effects of addiction. Abusers and victims alike must find a way to break the cycle through treatment and recovery.  Learn More>




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DrugRehab, a web resource that provides information and support to people fighting addiction and related mental health disorders.  

Research suggests that many people who survive abuse or some sort of violent trauma often develop issues related to alcohol abuse.  

The mission of DrugRehab.com is to be a support resource for those suffering through substance abuse and addiction.  





                                                                             


Identifying a connection between substance abuse and domestic violence.

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According to the American Society of Addiction Medicine, substance abuse occurs in conjunction with intimate partner violence anywhere from 40-60% of the time.



rehabcenter.netan organization dedicated to connecting people seeking addiction treatment to the resources they need to succeed. 


HopeLine is a program that connects survivors of domestic violence to vital resources, funds organizations nationwide and protects the environment. To date, they have collected over 10 million phones nationwide, while donating over $20 million dollars to domestic violence organizations.
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  Courage, Hope and Your Finances

Financial Help For Women in Abusive Relationships
Preventing Sexual Assault on Campus

The first report released by The White House Task Force to Protect Students from Sexual Assault detailed a chilling statistic: one in five college students experiences sexual assault during their college career. That, combined with the ACLU's estimation that 95% of U.S. campus rapes go unreported, highlights a serious problem on college campuses. 
  • What is Sexual Assault?
  • Recognizing Abuse
  • Sexual Assault Prevention
  • What to Do After an Assault

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Understanding Verbal Abuse
    by: Angela Lambert,
Drug and Alcohol Counselor
Morningside Recovery, Los Angeles, CA
https://plus.google.com/110638741171484483906/about
alambert@team.morningsiderecovery.com


Domestic Violence and Sexual

                 Assault Resource Websites


  
www.domesticviolence.org
http://www.now.org/           http://www.neighboursfriendsandfamilies.ca/index.php
www.safehorizon.org
http://www.enddomesticabuse.org/
http://www.rainn.org
http://www.nsvrc.org
http://www.futureswithoutviolence.org
http://www.injuryclaimcoach.com/domestic-violence-help.html



Preventing Domestic Abuse Crimes

In a healthy relationship, both partners benefit from not only love, but also mutual respect and support. People who marry, are partners, or become lovers often expect to enter into a relationship that provides them with ................read more>>>


Personal Security Self Defense and Resource Guide

Danger knows no bounds. It lurks around every corner when we least expect it. Nobody wants to deal with a life-threatening situation; however, everybody wants reassurance in knowing that they can defend themselves right down to the wire. Victims can employ.....Learn more>>

 
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Recognizing the warning signs and risk factors of women abuse is the first step.

He put her down
He does all the talking and dominates the conversation
He checks up on her all the time, even at work
He tries to suggest he is the victim and acts depressed.
He acts as if he owns her
He lies to make himself look good or exaggerates his good qualities
He acts like he is superior and of more value than others in his home.

She may be apologetic and makes excuses for his behaviour or becomes aggressive and angry.
She is nervous about talking when he's there.
She seems to be sick more often and misses work.
She tries to cover her bruises.
She makes excuses at the last minute about why she can't meet your or she tries to avoid you on the street.
She seems sad, lonely, withdrawn and is afraid.
She uses more drugs or alcohol to cope.

This information applies equally to gay and lesbian relationships. The situation may be more dangerous if, in addition to the warning signs: the couple has recently separated; the couple has custody and access issues; he has access to weapons; he is convinced she is seeing someone else; he has a history of abuse and he threatens to harm her children, her pets or her property.

Safety Planning is a top priority. Here are some important things you can do to increase your safety:

1. Tell someone you trust about the abuse
2. Gather important documents; all personal identification, financial and legal papers, house deed/lease, address book, medication and money/credit cards.
3. Put together valued pictures, jewelry and objects of sentimental value, as well as toys and comforts for your children.
4. Carry a photo of the abuser and your children with you.
5. Contact a women's shelter or the police. Ask for an officer who specializes in women abuse cases. He/she can help you do futher safety planning.
6. Consult a lawyer. Keep any evidence of physical abuse (such as photos). Keep a journal of all violent incidents, noting dates, events, and threats and witnesses.
7. Make sure your children's school or day care centre is aware of the situation and has copies of all relevant documents.
8. Do not tell the abuser you are leaving. Leave quickly.
9. Do not return to your home, unless accompanied by the police.
10. Never confront the abuser.

Zontians Learn From Other Zontians Valuable Information about Domestic and Sexual Violence Against Women at  2011 Fall Conference

 Sharon Mortensen, Midland Club
Exec. Dir.-Council on Domestic Violence and
Sexual Assault (Shelterhouse)

 Jane Mancinelli, Petoskey Club
Exec. Dir. - Women's Resource Center

Sharon Mortensen
and Jan Mancinelli discussed the prevalence of violence against women, the reasons behind that violence and the social change that is necessary to end violence against women as well as advocacy efforts Zonta clubs can pursue. View the 'Violence Against Women' powerpoint to learn more.

 

Gayle Manley, Sault Ste Marie Club
Board Mbr. - Women in Crisis (Algoma) Shelter; Community Mbr - Algoma Council on Domestic Violence

Gayle Manley discussed "Neighbours, Friends and Families At Work' which is an Ontario-based campaign to raise awareness of the signs of domestic abuse so that employers, co-workers or people close to those at-risk can help. The presentation 'Domestic Violence in the Workplace, Neighbours, Families and Friends, illustrated the basic components of the campaign including why workplaces need to be involved, recognizing the warning signs and signs of high risk, understanding the dynamics of domestic violence and why victims do not leave and how to intervene safely and respectfully. To learn more about the Neighbours, Friends and Families At Work campaign and for helpful tools and resources, click here